“We can only be made as new as we are willing to let go of who we have been.” ~Guy Finley
Change is a funny thing. Some thrive off of change and some do everything they can do avoid it. One thing I will tell you that I have personally learned about change is that it is the only constant in our lives…like it or not, change is going to happen. It is happening all around us at this moment.
Many do not like change because it puts them in a space of unknown. As humans, we like certainty. We like being able to predict what may happen and plan for how to handle it. Pretty much, we like to control as many circumstances (and sometimes people) in our lives as possible because for some reason that makes us feel safe. We think we have more control than we actually do…
I have watched many of my family and friends (and myself) continue to repeat old patterns simply due to the fact that we were afraid of changing the circumstances because of the “unknown factor.” Did you ever look at your life and ask yourself, “Why do I keep attracting the same people or the same circumstances into my life over and over again?” I recently asked myself this question in regards to my relationships. I seemed to attract the same type of men all of the time…ones who seemed nice on the surface but underneath were not what they claimed themselves to be. When I was finally able to step back, after A LOT of pain I might add, and look at why this might be happening, I realized two things. One, we are consistently given the same situations over and over again because there is a lesson that needs to be learned that we are just not learning. And two, why are we not learning the lesson? Because we are afraid to change…afraid to change what we believe or what we are doing because of the “unknown.” We constantly go back to similar situations, even if they cause us pain, because at least we know how to handle them…even if they bring us pain. That seems safer than doing something new and dealing with an “unknown.”
To become more comfortable with the unknown you have to have faith…ACTIVE faith, that there is a higher power working in your favor. A faith that everything happens for a reason and that everything, even though it may look “bad” on the surface, is for the higher good. You need to realize that you are NOT in control, cannot control other people and their reactions to you and that your power comes from honoring yourself in everything you do. How do you know if you’re honoring yourself? Is what you are doing in alignment with your truth and highest ideals? Is it honest? Is it coming from a good intention that will benefit not only you but others? Self-honor is self-love in action!
It is time to step up and change…do not be afraid. Everyone, at a soul level is Divine and good, just align your actions with that Divine part of you. Then you will understand the comfort of living in the unknown and feeling the warm wings of angels surround you with the faith you now carry.
I move forward fearlessly trusting that each step I take is perfectly and Divinely guided.
Honoring my true self,